December 02, 2021
Just because you’re a healer doesn’t mean it’s your responsibility to save people or solve all of their problems. Help, contribute, hold space, listen, but trying to save people is a boundary issue. Yes, we can help folks when we have the capacity and capability, but we have to be mindful of when we’re going too far and taking on someone else’s issue as if it is our own because it’s not. And no matter how well we think we know a person, how equipped we may feel to support them, we cannot fully solve another person’s problems.
Instead, see everyone as Source sees them, fully capable human beings who are equipped for their lives and able to rise above the challenges they face. Yes, they will need help, but doing something for them from start to finish or rescuing them from every challenge prevents them from developing.
Everyone loves the feelings that accompany personal accomplishment, completing a project, achieving a goal, keeping a promise they made to themselves. These things build self-esteem, pride, inner trust and hope. You know what it’s like to get a win in your life, no one can take that joy away or get credit for what you did. You always have the lessons you learned from that experience and the memories to recall next time you’re facing a new challenge or a change. Personal accomplishment builds inner faith.
You don’t want to rob someone of these experiences and happy emotions. While it may be difficult to not over-intervene and witness them stumble, sometimes fall flat in their faces, know that learning lumps teach and that their problem-solving skills are being activated in those moments.
Life never gives people more than they can figure out how to handle. Every problem has many solutions. You can be a resource of information, an answer to a question, but you cannot be someone else’s solution.
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